I read that book once… women are from venus and men are from mars… that crappy book that gives you some understanding into men… But coming to think of it that book wasn’t that crappy cause I feel like I need it again… I just don’t seem to understand men.. probably because i tend to lump men into a single group but probably because I understand women better…

there are a lot of things I don’t understand…. Like the fact that some boys defer their enrollment into MIT so that they can be with women who treat them like doormat… made me cry… women don’t stay with men that treat them like doormats… if they’re completely in love with men who treat them like doormats, they try their best to leave them. Like how some men just take out fifteen minutes to be with some women… like how that guy from the korean movie cries when the girl he loves dies or the guy who manages traffic ( in the same movie) at a crossing where his lover had a car accident…Like how that king made a marble monument for his queen…. Its too fictional to me…. like out of the books I used to read and fantasize about

But the non fictional things they do too are insomprehensible to me… like how  they expect you to do things when they want you to or where they want you to… Women don’t place such imperious demands on other human beings… even if they do they do it after pampering them for a while… they become sweet and nice … and as a payback are ready to do what the other peson tells them to do in the future… Like how they become possessive about thier wives and don’t let them go on trips alone… or start calling up thier daughter’s friends if she doesn’t get home by 5… or how they educate women in liberal ways and don’t liberate them…

Just totally incomprehensible….